"Never felt so relaxed in my life" @Terry 31/8/21
Sensual massage and sex coaching for all genders in Brighton
- 2 hands M(£80+)
- Learn on volunteer(£80+)
- Couple coaching(£450)
life-transforming - boost your sexual confidence
Why would I have a professional sensual massage?🤷
- I want to be more sexually confident and be a better lover for my current or next relationship
- I am open minded and not closed to exploration
- I am bi-curious and want to explore touch from someone of my sex
- The thought of watching her(or him) with another man turns us on
- **I want to try role-play and/or BDSM e.g. Make it a doctor's appointment, try cuffs, blindfolding, spanking, ball-gagging, dirty language. Ask me to spank, lie on, scald or tease you. Nothing you request is shameful because acting out a real-life sexual taboo in a safe, controlled setting with someone you trust is trauma-healing and exciting for most. Sensory deprivation alone often heightens arousal.
- We want to explore involving a third(or two more) in our partnership🧑🤝🧑🕺
- We would like to learn to better pleasure one another
- My Tinder dates suck and I need no strings, skilled sensual touch
- Parenting has taken over my life and I need to rediscover my sensuality away from the stresses and demands of home😩
- My romantic partner runs "hot and cold" when I ask for sensual touch
- I don't want to breach my religious rules about having sex 😇
- I want to learn more about my sensual self with a safe professional
- I have often wanted a massage to go "all the way"
- I need to overcome my inability to orgasm(anorgasmia)
- I have body image concerns about feeling comfortable naked
- I need to address my impotence or premature ejaculation issues
- I would like to be able to ask for pleasure and set boundaries directly, without embarrassment or shame
- I want to explore prostate massage and multiple orgasms for men
- *I want to try sex toys such as vibrating cock rings, The Doxy Die Cast, and glass dildos from your selection(sterilised)
- *I want to experience elements of Tantric Massage by introducing things such as ritual, eye-gazing and synchronised breath
*Must be requested on your booking form.
**Kinks to be requested on your booking form so we can agree details before your session. Can only be realised within the context of your massage and I will only introduce elements we have agreed upon. You can use an agreed "safe word" to stop the scene and revert to regular sensual massage.
#mostvaluabletherapyavailable
Reproduced with permission from Nymphainna
Erotic touch is a pathway to uniting heart, body and mind
Discover the pleasure of sensual intimacy
Most of us spend our lives sexually unfulfilled. It starts with a useless sex education that teaches about procreation, not pleasure, then we fill in the gaps with society's shameful, homophobic, monogamous judgements and think that porn is how real sex looks. Come to a professional who will demonstrate how good sex should feel so that you can seek it out with others. Bring a partner or friend for free, so you can each practice giving pleasure alongside me(extended sessions available on request).
Through mindful touch, I will show you how relaxed, embodied, sensual pleasure improves your whole life, perhaps for the first time. Your sex life won't be the same again and you will feel desirable and confident in your own skin.
Women can struggle to come during sex because of sensitive emotional "brakes" that need turning off. You often aren't given the emotional security and time to relax and desire sex by partners. I show you how foreplay should feel and that you should not be focused on your orgasm. If you relax, it will emerge with my touch.
Many men struggle because of an emotional disconnect with their penis, which leads to performance anxiety, impotence and premature ejaculation. Viagra is usually a sticking plaster over emotional anxiety. I aim to make you feel more connected with your whole body and help you deal with those issues. Ejaculatory orgasm is not my main aim but very likely at the moment I choose if you relax. Most male clients identify as "straight" but can't contain their excitement at my touch - it does not necessarily indicate that you are gay but that you have much in common with others.
Of course, you may just be after a damn good time that can include some light BDSM if you choose. Whatever the case, lie back and enjoy the sensual journey in my "magic hands"(@Sally Lunn 9/9/20).
As a SkinMap client, get access to exclusive content in the VIP Area of the site including the exclusive Telegram group. Become part of a community of non-threatening, like-minded, sex-positive folk. Sexism and gaslighting are not tolerated so that it is a safe place for both women and men to express their true feelings without negative, triggered projection. Maybe organise a massage social night to gently meet people or organising a joint visit to a sex club. It may then lead to off-group chats around a threesome, orgy or swinging at a later date. For many, it is much less intimidating than a sex club or swingers site. I moderate the group closely and sensitively intervene if anyone reports feeling uncomfortable - it usually isn't intentional and each of us has our unique trauma "triggers" around sex. If I become a friend, then I can no longer offer you professional services but you remain a member of the group.
#foreveryone
Reproduced with permission from Nymphainna
Professional, sex-positive, attractive and trustworthy
Why with you?
- Praised as a natural by top-rated UK trainer after witnessing my 1st ever massage on Cee Cee.
- People need to feel safe when taking any kind of massage, and I have a track record backed by testimonials
- Best(and possibly only) in Brighton for LGBTQ+ and hetro clients alike
- You appreciate that getting an excellent sensual massage is more important than the sex of the giver when he has processed his own "shadows"
- Approachable, safe, easy-going father, with partner who supports work.👫
- No body judgement - you will feel comfortable naked with me
- No talk of chakras - mine is a humanistic service
- "Outside" is perfect for a first time at lower price.👍
- Our boundary agreement is set when you book🗞️
- I apply the science of sex and desire
- Top professionals choose me to work with🤝
- Vaccinated with Pfizer jab💉
- Brighton is the perfect dirty weekend getaway🤭🚘🚂
- Get access to exclusive content and the private Telegram group in the VIP Area🕶️
My testimony from Cee Cee shows the desire she felt for me: We very quickly connected emotionally and she thrilled as her naked body was revealed to me then trusted me to touch her intimately, leading to multiple powerful orgasms. For only the second time in her life, she felt completely relaxed in a man's hands. In this interview with Cosmopolitan, she explains how having sensual massages transformed her body and sexual confidence.
Only book the intimacy service you are comfortable with:
- "Outside": External massage only, We wear pants, touch me/us anywhere except genitals
- "Inside": Internal massage included, We wear pants, touch me/us anywhere except genitals
- "Interact": Internal massage included, I/we am naked, touch me/us anywhere. This service is especially useful for clients that are looking to improve their confidence in touching other people(touching me can not include masturbation).
I will create the sexual desire you need to orgasm. My ability to respect boundaries and keep the space safe for us is key to trust, relaxation and success.
Having a self-serious "tantra guru" or "adonis" therapist can stop some people from establishing an emotional connection because they are not "showing you" their true selves. You don't feel comfortable making yourself vulnerable and so may not fully relax as they touch you, emotionally blocking your orgasm. Female clients generally experience a few, intense orgasms because you connect->trust->relax->desire alongside physical arousal. Your orgasms are more about you intensely desiring my touch than being aroused or me touching you. The chain starts the moment I greet you. A sensual massage booking with me is, primarily an experience rather than a therapy.
Instead, we can role-play these serious stereotypes with agreement so it becomes a hot fantasy scene where we are connected - do you see the difference? It will then be relaxed, naughty, light-hearted, fantastic, passionate, slippery fun. With me, you will feel free to giggle, laugh, swear, squeal, groan, moan, writhe, shake and buck. It becomes your space to let go and unleash your sensual, raw, hedonistic self without shame or guilt.
I am not sexual trauma trained and so if you think there is a risk that the session will bring up serious emotional pain, I would ask that you visit a therapist specifically trained to deal with such issues instead. However, it is of course an emotional experience and expression is welcome; I am a well-balanced and emotionally literate man and happy to cuddle and soothe but not to give talking therapy.
For sensual massage without sex✅ or over-seriousness✅, backed by testimonials✅, book with me.
Read more about me
#skilled #experienced #ethical #honest #fun
I had some 1:1 training with Colin Richards of Intimacy Matters
What I'll do to excite you 🤗
You just lie back and receive - I'll do the work
I will give you a relaxing sensual massage with external and internal stimulation, tailored to your needs and desires after absolute agreement between us around our boundaries. All therapeutic massage given is bodywork. It may also include role-play or BDSM if we have discussed and agreed them. Detail them on the booking form.
You will be naked, allowing free-flowing and sensual strokes to the whole body.
It will take place on my high quality, spotlessly clean treatment table in my warm room (21c), with your choice of scent and soft music (we can use your Spotify playlist). You may have a shower first. I'll leave the room for you to prepare and fully relax your body and mind, covering yourself with a towel.
I will be guided by my natural intuition, taking all sorts of cues from you, physical and verbal. I'll encourage you to shift around and vocalise.
Roughly speaking, there will be 3 stages, split more or less equally but very much dependent upon your responses as we progress:
- Trust And Relaxation.
- Build Arousal.
- Calm And Build Again.
1. Trust And Relaxation
The first phase will be about building trust and relaxing with just a little teasing to begin arousal. You'll be face down on the treatment table with a towel covering your body from shoulders to feet and I'll begin with head massage, gently stroking your neck and ears.
Then light touches, progressing to firm pressure applied up and down the body, all over the towel at this stage.
I'll remove the towel extremely slowly, dragging it down over the body to the feet. You will feel an incredibly powerful sensation as it moves across the body, combined the feeling of being exposed, which can be very exciting.
I'll then use ostrich feathers, finger-tips and other sensory stimulation devices to awaken your senses.
Now, hot coconut oil will be gently applied, and I'll give a bodywork full body massage with mostly long and slow strokes. They will be firm but not deep tissue.
There can be body contact, caressing, hugging, and I always hold and squeeze hands to build a trusting context. There will be sensual touch of the neck, inner thighs, buttocks to tease and thus build desire, but it won't be fully erotic at this stage.
2. Build Arousal
I'll reawaken the senses, first with brisk all over body strokes, and then angel fingers or finger nails across the body. It can feel like electric shocks but it's very nice and shouldn't be unpleasantly ticklish (it's can be a fine line). I'll continue with bodywork massage, introducing more deliberately arousing strokes brushing and teasing your intimate areas, building frequency and intensity gradually increasing my focus on them.
Stimulation will become more vigorous with techniques** intended to simulate sex and give the feeling of being pinned down. Being face down allows you to fantasise about me and what's happening.
I'll be masturbating** you as you grind hips and moan. For women, you might cum but it's not the goal. For men I'll careful not to go to level 7(the point of no return) yet and keep you just at the edge. As a women, you may cum a few times then need to be left alone, covered, to relax for a bit.
3. Calm and Build Again
After checking you are ready to continue, I'll ask you to turn onto your back, with a towel covering and support for your head. You may like to put on a blindfold, which can heighten other senses.
More hands up thighs and brushing against your balls/pussy building to feel like frenzied, hot sex with firm, hot hand pressure and hot oil between your legs. Varied pussy/penis/prostate masturbation** until you probably release and cum hard. I gently hold and squeeze your shaft base/vulva as your body relaxes. For women, I'll build then relax for as long as you want to keep cumming.
I can finish with leaving alone/cuddling/hand-holding/gentle wiping - whatever you need to feel cared for.
**Certain aspects are limited by your booking choice:
- "Outside": External massage only, We wear pants, touch me/us anywhere except genitals
- "Inside": Internal massage included, We wear pants, touch me/us anywhere except genitals
- "Interact": Internal massage included, I/we am naked, touch me/us anywhere. This service is especially useful for clients that are looking to improve their confidence in touching other people(touching me can not include masturbation).
#organised #confident #skilled
Still curious?
You may still have questions about what sensual massage is and how it compares with Tantric Massage and prostitution.
It is important to know the differences before choosing your professional.