"Certainly NOT prostitution". Anita 20/12/20
Sensual and Conventional Massage
Sensual, bodywork or naturist massage for all in Brighton and South London. Range: £80-£230. From qualified masseur, James
Erotic touch is a pathway to uniting heart, body and mind
Discover the pleasure of sensual intimacy without having sex
Transform your sex life: experience a genuine sense of emotional connection as I touch your body with care and attention.
Women can struggle to come during sex because of sensitive emotional "brakes" that need turning off. You simply aren't given the time to relax by partners. I show you how foreplay should feel.
Many men struggle with penis anxiety which leads to performance anxiety, impotence and premature ejaculation. I aim to make you feel attractive and adequate and help you deal with those issues, using my knowledge, skills, empathy and experience.
Feeling relaxed and cared for, with and by me is key to having an amazing experience. Lie back and enjoy the sensual journey in my "magic hands"(Sally - 9/9/20).
What I'll do to you
I will give you a relaxing, sensual massage with external and internal stimulation, tailored to your needs and desires after absolute agreement between us around our boundaries. All therapeutic massage given is bodywork.
You will be naked, allowing free-flowing and sensual strokes to the whole body.
It will take place on my high quality, spotlessly clean treatment table in my warm room (21c), with your choice of scent and soft music (we can use your Spotify playlist). You may have a shower first. I'll leave the room for you to prepare and fully relax your body and mind, covering yourself with a towel.
I will be guided by my natural intuition, taking all sorts of cues from you, physical and verbal. I'll encourage you to shift around and vocalise.
Roughly speaking, there will be 3 stages, split more or less equally but very much dependent upon your responses as we progress:
- Trust And Relaxation.
- Build Arousal.
- Calm And Build Again.
1. Trust And Relaxation
The first phase will be about building trust and relaxing with just a little teasing to begin arousal. You'll be face down on the treatment table with a towel covering your body from shoulders to feet and I'll begin with head massage, gently stroking your neck and ears.
Then light touches, progressing to firm pressure applied up and down the body, all over the towel at this stage.
I'll remove the towel extremely slowly, dragging it down over the body to the feet. You will feel an incredibly powerful sensation as it moves across the body, combined the feeling of being exposed, which can be very exciting.
I'll then use ostrich feathers, finger-tips and other sensory stimulation devices to awaken your senses.
Now, hot coconut oil will be gently applied, and I'll give a bodywork full body massage with mostly long and slow strokes. They will be firm but not deep tissue.
There can be body contact, caressing, hugging, and I always hold and squeeze hands to build a trusting context. There will be sensual touch of the neck, inner thighs, buttocks to tease and thus build desire, but it won't be fully erotic at this stage.
2. Build Arousal
I'll reawaken the senses, first with brisk all over body strokes, and then angel fingers or finger nails across the body. It can feel like electric shocks but it's very nice and shouldn't be unpleasantly ticklish (it's can be a fine line). I'll continue with Swedish style massage, introducing more deliberately arousing strokes brushing and teasing your intimate areas, building frequency and intensity gradually increasing my focus on them.
Stimulation will become more vigorous with some techniques, intended to simulate sex and give the feeling of being pinned down. Being face down will allow your imagination to fantasise.
Tuning into your level of arousal I'll give just enough genital stimulation too. For women, It's usual for you to have an orgasm now but it's never the goal. For men I'll careful not to go past "the point of no return" yet and keep you in the excitement phase. I'll finish by covering you with a towel and give you a couple of minutes to allow arousal to subside before turning over. As a women, you may be in the orgasm resolution phase at this point and need to be left alone, covered, to relax for a few minutes.
3. Calm and Build Again
After checking you are ready to continue, I'll ask you to turn onto your back, with a towel covering and support for your head. You may like to put on a blindfold, which can heighten other senses.
Back to therapeutic massage whilst arousal subsides. I'll massage your shoulders, chest/breasts, and do a gentle belly massage.
Sliding the towel off, I'll massage your legs, lifting for thighs and again brushing between your legs to start building your arousal to get back to excitement again. With plenty of warm oil, I'll massage all areas between your legs and begin more intense clitoral/penile. If desired, I'll give internal massage, stimulating G/PS/P spots which can result in one or more(if you are a woman) orgasms. I will keep going as long as it's comfortable and pleasurable for you.
I'll finish by covering you with a towel while arousal subsides and you relax again, finishing with a foot, face and head massage to finish as you desire.
I'll leave the room for you to relax, before getting up and dressed, taking a shower if you wish.
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