Where the pleasure is all yours
Erotic massage from James in Brighton
I'll be your mindful guide on a sensual journey towards more sexual self-awareness so you can seek-out the sex-life you need.
I'll be your mindful guide on a sensual journey towards more sexual self-awareness so you can seek-out the sex-life you need.
Although brief, our time together was fundamental to realising a similar path; introducing others to the pleasure and benefits of sacred sexual touch
Tantalisingly-slow massage of the entire genital region, Your intention - to actively receive my teasing, erotic touch. The experience can help develop a more sex-positive, accepting attitude.
Bringing focus to deeper areas of the clitoris & vagina releases stress, lifts mood & is said to heal sexual trauma.
For men, removing focus from orgasm improves performance dysfunction & masturbation experience.
Hey, it all feels amazing, whatever🤪
Authentic full-body massage (as enjoyed before we got hysterical about sex)
Check availability and book:
After booking, I ask you to choose your "vibe" and give consent here. For example:
Proper massage (naked or not) with no genital touch😇.
I am a trained Jing deep-tissue bodywork therapist.
Can incorporate hot stones.
Choose either of
You may upgrade to a genital touch massage during (subject to having additional money and my being available for additional time).
18+ only and specific consent requested/given when you book.
Many feel shame about having sex fantasies and they remain unexplored except during masturbation. Clients sometimes share them with me for the 1st time and maybe you recognise these most common themes?
For my sensual massage in Brighton clients, "Taboo circumstances" and "same-sex encounter" fantasies are top for many. For couples massages, "more than two" and "changing things up" are always important. Everyone needs to experience 4 hands on them at least once; you are just introducing my skilled hands and guidance to your relationship for a couple of hours..
All are welcome, and maybe you are a bi-curious man, sexually-bored wife, curious about BDSM, or a couple looking for a threesome massage experience without full sex, just yet?
Discover more about fantasies by listening to expert Dr Justin Lehmiller.
You aren't alone so...
I'm a sex-professional, not just a worker.
Because ethics are my unique selling point, I'm a devotee of The Wheel of Consent® by Betty Martin (considered the gold-standard for safe touch work).
Gifts of pleasure flow from me to you because you make requests (e.g. "I would like"), and I make offers (e.g. "would you like?").
To describe it visually, I came up with my own diagram👇
Dear sensual explorer,
Memorable sexual experiences are mindful, relaxed and trusting.
Although we are not going to "have sex", it is a sexual experience so hear what Justin Lehmiller and Gabrielle say about good casual sex. It applies to our session because its about communicating authentically during intimacy.
Initiating "doing stuff" will be hornier for you, because you will explore boundary-fluidity instead of only accepting my suggestions. For example, you might say "Can you gently tug and blow on my ears?", "I would like you to watch me undress to the Pink Panther theme" or "My feet are cold, please can you put something over them?". You are guiding me in what you desire, moment-by-moment.
Taking pleasure from touching me is allowed and it doesn't have to be sexual. For example, you might ask "Can I run my fingers over your chest hair?" or I might offer "Would you like to embrace my waist?" . I encourage you to take it gradually at first and see where it takes us in conscious connection, checking-in about how it is flowing for both😏. If it is an allowed gift of access to my body, then it is being done to me because it is for you.
What happens at SkinMap stays in SkinMap, by which I mean I will not identify you personally to anyone. Please do tell all to your friends and leave me a review on Google Business or send me one to post anonymously here😍
Reading this stuff might feel uncomfortable if you're not that sex-positive yet but stick with it. There are three overall themes (change your mind, even during the session):
If you find nerves are getting in the way, try this embodiment exercise to overcome them. It is normal for new clients to have this shadow reaction to a novel, vulnerable experience. However, this is your personal, journey of erotic exploration and discovery and nothing except your own judgement can prevent you from embracing it.
I write erotica occasionally so maybe have a read first, if that kind of thing fires up your naughty imagination. Be warned that very little is massage-related, and is mostly hedonistic, filthy, sexual fantasy using very "taboo" language I think gives it "edge"🤪.
See you soon at mine or yours (by prior agreement),
James x
P.S. Take a look at the "What vibe do you desire?" section on the form now for a preview of my "sensual menu of delights".
"Thank you very much for today James. You were very kind and made me feel good from the start of our appointment. Feel as if I knew you and was totally relaxed before our session and absolutely brilliant afternoon hopefully will see you December. Maggie".
My reflection
At 83, Maggie is a prime example that we need never stop enjoying new erotic experiences.
Telegram
"Following my writing of a fantasy which James posted on his blog, i decided to visit James and act out the prisoner/warden fantasy. James was very good at getting into the role of prison warden. The whole scenario went perfectly. If your into being fondled and groped whilst handcuffed to a ceiling hook then book a session with James. Thank you James."
"Hi James
Great to see you again last week. I enjoyed our talk too and found an article on Kunyaza that I thought would interest you https://newint.org/features/web-exclusive/2017/12/15/kunyaza-rwanda-sex-equality
See you again soon!
Sarah xx"
"Dear James,
I woke up feeling so sexually fulfilled after last night's session! I have never been touched like that before and when we started with just lying looking at each other, gently touching, I thought I would get impatient for the massage to begin. Instead it made me feel more connected and trusting. By the time you invited me to lie on my front to begin, I was sold on your calm, mindful approach to arousing me. Three, intense orgasms later and I already knew I had to book again soon! When my partner came home I told him all about the session and he is keen to pay for more sessions and tells me he has already transferred the money for the next, for me to book when I'm ready! Thank you for coming to London and can we make it twice a month?😏"
"Oh my god, I literally feel like Goddess Kali after our de-armouring session yesterday. I can't thank you enough for spending so much time chatting on Telegram with me (unpaid🫢) before I came. You are so serious about your work, while being so friendly and entertaining too - I think you would make a good comedian, but am lucky you chose sex-work instead: call me selfish!
The way you made me feel so safe and in control of what would happen was the reason I was able to travel from London to your flat, to have you touch me there. I haven't been touched before and so it surprised me that I felt that connection with you, just from texting and a phone conversation. You must be an amazing lover - well jealous of your girlfriend.
The treatment was well prepared and I really felt that you were tailoring it around my needs - serving just me and my inner goddess, unlike my ex-husband who didn't seem to notice she existed!
Your touch was divine and lit up my senses, taking me to a place of sexual arousal and desire I have never felt. You went so deliciously slowly, checking in with me using hand-holds (my favourite kind of connection) and soft words in my ear - just blissful really.
By the time your hands moved to my yoni, I felt it welcome your fingers and draw them in, as though there was a conversation going on down there.
The conversation afterwards showed that you really pay attention to your clients so that you can feed back in exquisite detail, what you noticed about their responses - you are a true prince amongst men James and this lady walked away with a big smile and all sorts of fantasies for 2024!
Asma x"
Email (after Nick returned with wife Jen)
To me
"Hiya James, have a fabulous weekend we are away this weekend, thanks to you we are having a naughty brake[sic] away… we are so looking forward to seeing you in the new year, very likely it will be End of January, hope business is booming for you… Nick"
From me
"Hi Nick and that is such good news! Have a sexy Christmas and see you in the NY.
James x"
Nick:
"I’m very thankful for your service, it’s worked wonders… happy Christmas to you too.. hopefully Jen will Find a new lover over the Christmas party season"
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"I visited James last week and had a fabulous experience, very thoughtful and warm and professional guy, it was so calming and invigorating, and stimulating, I have had other massages before…. But nothing on this level… I’ll definitely be returning for another experience…. Thank you James and definitely be seeing you very soon… Nick"
Via email:
"I first discovered the website back in April and have going back to read it ever since. There is so much information on there and not just about what James does but really good stuff about sex that I had no idea about. I have read everything, including all the blogs. I could see he was passionate about his work!
I finally booked a massage yesterday because I had to find out what he was like; I had started to fantasise about his massages when touching myself in bed! He let me come at short notice the same afternoon, even though the booking system was only showing next day.
I was not disappointed and not only did he gave me the best sensual touch of my life but it was one of the most powerful orgasms too. He knows how to edge you until your whole body is tingling with anticipation.
He is also a very interesting guy (incredibly sexy and attractive too, which helped) and we chatted for ages afterwards."
Via email:
"I booked with James because I struggle to reach orgasm and after reading his website I was sure he could help.
Although I hadn't had a professional erotic massage before, I have had lots of conventional ones and so was entirely happy at the idea of being touched by a stranger whilst naked. A boyfriend had given me what he called "tantric" but I wanted to see what a professional was like. I do webcam sex work on OnlyFans most nights so it might sound daft that I find it difficult but my subscribers are just there for the fantasy and don't care whether I am faking it or not.
When I arrived he was relaxed and welcoming which put me at ease immediately - he isn't some ripped "Adonis" type and I liked that. His flat was tidy, clean and had a good, safe vibe to it. He was well presented with a cheeky smile, good looks and the kind of come-to-bed eyes and neatly-trimmed beard I just can't resist. I asked whether he has many other women my age (27) and he said a few, but most are 40+. Although my urge was to tell him to get his strong, wide hands on my naked body we sat and chatted first, which was actually what I really needed before getting my clothes off and be fully in the zone. My eyes kept scanning his body and I am sure he could tell I was keen to start.
It began with me face-down and James did some pressing all over with a blanket covering me. When his hot hands slowly brushed my shoulders and made their way up my neck and around my ears I shuddered and could feel my pussy tingling.
He progressed slowly, eventually dragging the blanket oh so slowly off me so that I lay deliciously naked and vulnerable before him. Next was a big feather all over me - I couldn't tell what it was at first but boy, was it fantastic. There were various other different devices, each very different but each thrilling to the senses. I was in sensual heaven! The only one I couldn't take was the pin-wheel - too much like torture for me.
It progressed to hot oil poured on my back and between my legs - wow, the hot liquid flowing over my fanny was like nothing I had ever experienced. He did some nice deep tissue work down my back and teasing touches around the tops of my thighs, making me grind my hips again the table.
By the time his hand slipped between my legs to stroke my pussy, I was slick with wetness and happy to let him know that he was doing such a good job. I came twice like that, with hardly a gap between orgasms and then he suggested I turn over. I asked for the blindfold and he slipped it over my head.
James started with some more hot oil, over my chest and between my legs and slowly rubbed up and down my front, circling and tweaking my nipples as he went. I could feel a current go straight to my clit as he played with them. Soon he was back between my legs, expertly massaging everywhere, varying between slow, fast, firm, light - just really tuning in and sometimes asking what I wanted more of. I don't normally like my bum hole touched but this was different because of the way I felt - I wanted his hands to take me everywhere.
As he touched my clit, he pressed his chest against me so I felt pinned to the table - I love that feeling that I am helpless to resist whilst knowing I can completely trust the man. I came even harder this time, body bucking up off the table. James knew exactly how to hit that sweet spot of dominance and trust.
I urge other women to try James - it is the kind of experience you have probably only fantasied about whilst touching yourself. I will be back soon!"
Via email:
"Having experienced two previous sessions with James (2 hands sensual and Nuru) I already knew this was going to be something special. I had responded to a mailshot inviting previous clients to experience a full, four hands sensual massage from James plus assistant, Annie for the price of just James and arrived feeling very excited at what was in store this time!".
On meeting Annie, I instantly felt relaxed in her company - just a normal woman but one entirely in touch with her own sexuality and not triggered by the idea that she was about to get naked alongside James, and me then touch and pleasure me without judgement or holding back. So refreshing and how things should be between men and women in a safe, sensual situation. It turned me on to feel so accepted for who am too.
James and Annie took the time to talk about what would happen and that I could communicate desires at any time - again, not something that I have experienced before, even witrh lovers and I wondered why anything to do with sex tends to be kept secret, even between people we are doing it with sometimes!
The session was delicious from start to finish and having the two of them touch me at the same time was quite different because it made me excitedly curious to know who was doing what. One of the best things is that they communicate with one another all the time so that the touch is never confusing, just intriguing and stimulating - they clearly have a very good sexual connection and find it easy to extend that energy out to a third person so that a feeling of spirtual flow happens. They edged my cock expertly and I was twitchingly hard for god knows how long but just short of ejaculation so that it seems liked I was having an extended orgasm - I can see that, with practice, they could help me to learn how to have multiple orgasms.
James asked me whether I was ready to cum and I nodded - he keeps a close eye on how long the session lasts to that ensure things aren't rushed or going on too long for the client - sometimes you are absolutley ready to release and prolonging it wouldn't work so well. You can trust James to work with you to help you hit your sweet spot!
I came hard and felt it go up to my head and out through my toes. James remarked on how much cum I spurted and I laughed that it was definately down to the situation. Towards the end I was holding James's cock and feeling Annie's wetness whist they expertly massaged my whole genital region and up and down my thighs too which was something quite different for me.
Afterwards, they continued to caress my body all over for what seemed ages - something I had never experienced before and often I have felt sad to be alone on the post-orgasmic glow when lovers assume I don't need any aftercare. They understood exactly what was needed though.
When you book with James, ask him whether Annie is available - she is actually his girlfriend, has a good main job at a property maintenance firm and joins James because she gets something out of it beyond what any financial reward could provide and told me it leaved her feeling relaxed and glowing too."
Via email
"Hi James I very much enjoyed my time with you this week and it was great to feel that connection with you too. My confidence is coming back!
Thanks for sharing the article, it’s reassuring to hear about people in similar circumstances, and also the power of communication.
I’d definitely like to book again and so I hope we meet again in the (not too distant) future. Sarah x"
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"I really enjoyed the time when I was there. James always does his best to give you the best experience."
My response
"Thank you so much Keith and I am so proud when I see people recognise the effort I put in. I realised recently that I must have given around 170 massages now as well as 3 very successful escorting sessions (more recent service). James."
Via email
"Hi James,
I did look at putting up a Google review but wouldn't like my name & photo appearing.
Please feel free to anonymously use this on your website though -
James is the perfect mix of relaxed & friendly while also being very professional. I had the sensual massage which definitely hit the spot. I had a wonderful time. Thanks James!"
Via email:
"We were pleased that we tried the idea of 3some, but in the end feel that it is beyond our boundaries.
We are glad you enjoyed yourself, and both thank you for the efforts you put in to help us feel relaxed.
We hope that everything goes well for you in the future.
Nicola & Joe x"
Note: This was my second esorting visit and it was really good fun. We met and flirted in the hotel bar first, before taking our drinks up to their room, where I slowly undressed Nicola; that worked perfectly for all.
Do note that couples specifying cuckold and threesome need to have discussed with each other and me exactly what turns them both on about the dynamic beforehand and know that we can pause at any time and/or adjust in the moment to anything else we all agree to. Checking in with everyone regularly is key to successful group sex. Highly recommend taking this Beducated workshop first.
Via email:
"I have made several visits to James over the last 2 years. I am impressed by his honest and straightforward approach to erotic massage, with no euphemisms or hypocrisy. His website tells and shows exactly what you get. His standard sensual massage is wonderful and can take you into a level of ecstasy where you've never been before. On my latest visit I went to the next level and had an internal (prostate) massage. James knows what he's doing with this type of massage: no hurry, very patient and taking the time that's needed for sensations to build up. The result was beyond words - I had a leg-shaking prostate orgasm followed shortly afterwards by genital orgasm with ejaculation. An unforgettable experience!"
Via Contact Page:
"Hi, I am very happy to know your website, I would like to book an hour massage to have an orgasm, I would like an outside massage without any input. I am a 30 year old woman what is the earliest date".
My reflections
She explained that English was not her 1st language and that she was Arabic and so needed to know there would be no penetration (this means you are no longer a virgin, for her).
We chatted back and forth by email until she was confident that I would only do what she wanted during her session and I explained that Michelle had felt confident enough on 24/10, and loved what had happened.
The session was in her room, which was a first for me; it had to be on her bed as there was no room for my table. She insisted that that was exactly what she wanted to feel comfortable and so I agreed and visited with my bag of equipment. It was all quite exciting for both when she guided me up in the lift to her room, me following slightly behind.
I invited her to connect with me standing face-to-face and deep breathe in sync, whilst eye-gazing and holding hands. She was shy at first, looking down but was smiling when she looked up to meet my eyes. It helped us both to connect and relax which is an essential pre-requisite for intimacy work. She asked me whether we could start and I explained what would happen, letting her feel the feather, angel-fingers and spike wheel and asking her to choose a diffuser scent, music and lighting. The right setting is incredibly important and especially for female clients.
The session went very smoothly, although it was tricky getting around her on the bed (it was against a wall). I guess it meant for a more intimate experience and I still managed to do all of the things I would normally do on the table.
Shamima was very responsive and vocal, making delightful noises as I worked - letting me know exactly what was arousing her from moment to moment by squeezing my hand back (my way of getting feedback).
At times she would remind me about not wanting penetration as I massaged her pussy externally; it can be difficult for a client to know when they are swollen and slick with coconut oil and their own natural lubrication!
She came several times (as requested on her form) and delighted in the free bullet vibrator I gave her.
"I found the site because I was looking for an erotic massage The reason for the reservation is that I want to enjoy the excitement and reach the orgasm more than once".
As I left, she asked whether we could be friends and she could text me.
(Note: Shamima is a pseudonym)
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"I have since been for a second sensual massage with James. He takes the time to put you at ease so you feel completely relaxed and not awkward at all."
My reflections
Sarah first visited in May and knew exactly what she wanted the second time so booked my Standard massage which includes internal pussy and anal massage (very nice for women too). So much more relaxed and trusting of me and the experience from the start during this visit and we had a good catch-up chat beforehand. I fully expect her to be brave enough to turn onto her back the next time; this is a gradual process of building body-confidence for many female clients
My reflections
Michelle booked my Introductory level massage which excludes internal touch but she excluded genital touch on the consent form as well, which I was puzzled by but was explained afterwards.
When she arrived, I gave her option to request vulva massage and even to upgrade to Standard (internal massage) if she had the additional £20. I could tell she was simply feeling a bit reticent about genital touch as it was her first ever sensual massage.
The session went well and she was clearly already very aroused when on her front, grinding the table and dripping juices onto the cover. I asked if she would like me to touch her vulva and she gave enthusiastic consent. She orgasmed after about 15 seconds of light touch. I have never seen such an intense, full body one and she grabbed my hand and contorted, as if in pain.
When she turned over, I massaged her nipples for just a few seconds and she orgasmed again. She looked at me and asked what had just happened!
When I massaged her vulva this time I did it very slowly and talked to her about the things happening. Coaching her about her body. She came again.
What was surprising this time is she asked whether I had put my fingers inside her. She looked convinced I had. I explained not, and she accepted it.
We had a long talk afterwards and I explained about the orgasmic plateau and how she had been there and that even thoughts could have triggered further orgasms; the entire body and mind can become an erogenous zone.
She revealed that she had excluded internal touch for religious reasons and cannot give herself orgasms.
This podcast by Justin Lehmiller on boundary fluidity explains the psychology behind Michelle's process with me, and why she was so brave!
(The text above was approved by the client as being an authentic account).
Coming to me is a sexually life-transforming experience.
My reflections
Jez was a newbie to sensual massage and fairly nervous. I chatted to him lots beforehand to put him at his ease and reassure him that he was in control of what happened. His only proviso was that he hadn't had great experiences with prostate massage and so to go slowly and that he was a bit ticklish around the middle.
I started extra slowly with Jez, to properly ease him into the new experience. I noticed that his breathing slowed and became deeper, which is always a good sign that my clients are relaxed and open to the experience.
I made sure to include lots of proper bodywork massage with an increasing amount of teasing between his legs.
Without going into too much detail, Jez was extremely responsive and aroused by the time it came to touching his cock and so I was able to edge him for some forty-five minutes - his face was a picture of ecstasy the entire time. [Hand] job well-done and £20 tip given.
Jez was in town for 🏳🌈Gay Pride Brighton 2022🏳🌈 and said it was the best way to start his hedonistic weekend.
In addition to singles, as you can imagine, open-minded, explorative couples looking for a discrete, safe adventure into the exciting dynamic of a threesome often visit me as part of a dirty weekend in Brighton - always fun sessions with smiles, laughs and demonstrations of new edging techniques by me. Many report back that they went on to have successful group sex afterwards.
"I decided I wanted to try a sensual massage with a guy and found James’ website.
I really didn’t know what to expect but was quite excited and looking forward to it. We started with a chat, talked about tantric massage and found we had similar points of view about sex. Anyway, James had made me feel comfortable and so we started the massage.
His touch was good and I was starting to feel relaxed, and actually quite turned on. I hadn’t been touched quite like that before and it was exciting.
Before long I was hard and was taking it in that I was being massaged and touched by a guy. Yet I was totally relaxed it was an amazing feeling.
My body was very tired and although I had gotten close a few times my orgasm eluded me.
What I liked about James is there was no pressure! He just continued to touch and massage me making me feel wonderful.
So I am definitely going back to experience more."
"I had a fantastic session with James. He was very warm, genuine and welcoming. He is very intuitive and skilled at reading and adapting to your yearnings. The session was blissful from start to glorious finish, exactly what I wanted. I didn't want it to end! If you are hesitating about whether to try James just book him - you won't regret it. You can be completely open about what you crave without worrying about judgement. He is a unique fountain of pleasure - treat yourself".
My notes
Daniel was my second tran male client. In conversation (as he was reflecting on a very satisfying second orgasm) Daniel told me that I was charging too little, so tipped me £50. I told him that I don't have many female clients and he was shocked. I explained that they sometimes enquire but are rarely brave enough to commit to booking and find some spurious reason not to such as "[the testimonials may not be genuine]". He said they were clearly missing out. I told him that they sometimes come with a partner, but not often alone. he agreed that most expect men to initiate intimate activities.
UPDATE: Danielle returned for another massage within a week of this review and I have changed my pricing to invite tips.
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"I booked the bodywork (non-genital) massage with the option to upgrade during the massage. My husband was keen for my to experience a sensual massage but I was unsure. I thought this would be a good half way to see how I felt during the massage. It was a good approach to take.
I was a bit apprehensive beforehand but James was very welcoming and put me at my ease. He explained that he would ask me how I felt during the massage and ask how I would like to proceed from then on. I was still unsure whether to upgrade, even during the massage, so James made some suggestions to try. They definitely worked and I upgraded to the full sensual massage which I really enjoyed. James knew which buttons to press and I came really hard.
I kept thinking about it for days afterwards and felt really turned on. I would definitely recommend James and I’m sure I will be back - my husband’s keen on the cuckold massage! Sarah".
My response
"Thank you so much for this detailed review Sarah; it is really helpful because it gives others a much better flavour of my services and the way I manage to put people at their ease, even on their first visit to an erotic massuer.
James."
First of all, have a look at some real-life information from past clients. Then have a browse below:
*Must be requested on your booking form.
**Kinks to be requested on your booking form so we can agree details before your session. Can only be realised within the context of your massage and I will only introduce elements we have agreed upon. You can use an agreed "safe word" to stop the scene and revert to regular sensual massage.
Think of a desire as something you crave rather than need and I get a better idea of how I can help. We can discuss what is wanted to achieve them when you book.
What actually happens and how can I be confident that you are safe to be touching me naked?👇
Reproduced with permission from Nymphainna
I will give you a relaxing sensual or tantric massage (say which on the booking form)with external and internal stimulation, tailored to your needs and desires after absolute agreement between us around our boundaries. All therapeutic massage given is bodywork. It may also include role-play or BDSM if we have discussed and agreed them. Detail them on the booking form.
It is important for me that you remain in a state of conscious, embodied awareness and don't "zone out" because it can make it more difficult to tune into how you are feeling or possibly even know whether you are still able to give informed consent to receive touch. Essentially, I invite you to remain responsive to how I am touching you rather than going into an entirely passive, "star fish" mode on the table😄. The more sounds, movements, verbal feedback and so on that you can provide, the more attuned we will be. This invites more flow and boundary fluidity; the degree to which we are able to adapt to your changing needs and desires.
If I detect that you have gone into a triggered "freeze" state then I will gently end the session and help you to emotionally regulate. This hasn't happened during a session yet and I want to reassure you I won't just carry on regardless.
It will take place on my high quality, spotlessly clean treatment table in my warm room (21c), with your choice of scent and soft music (we can use your Spotify playlist). You may have a shower first. I'll leave the room for you to prepare and fully relax your body and mind, covering yourself with a towel.
I will be guided by my natural intuition, taking all sorts of cues from you, physical and verbal. I'll encourage you to shift around and vocalise.
Roughly speaking, there will be 3 stages, split more or less equally but very much dependent upon your responses as we progress:
1. Trust And Relaxation
The first phase will be about building trust and relaxing with just a little teasing to begin arousal. You'll be face down on the treatment table with a towel covering your body from shoulders to feet and I'll begin with head massage, gently stroking your neck and ears.
Then light touches, progressing to firm pressure applied up and down the body, all over the towel at this stage.
I'll remove the towel extremely slowly, dragging it down over the body to the feet. You will feel an incredibly powerful sensation as it moves across the body, combined the feeling of being exposed, which can be very exciting.
I'll then use ostrich feathers, finger-tips and other sensory stimulation devices to awaken your senses.
Now, hot coconut oil will be gently applied, and I'll give a bodywork full body massage with mostly long and slow strokes. They will be firm but not deep tissue.
There can be body contact, caressing, hugging, and I always hold and squeeze hands to build a trusting context. There will be sensual touch of the neck, inner thighs, buttocks to tease and thus build desire, but it won't be fully erotic at this stage.
2. Build Arousal
I'll reawaken the senses, first with brisk all over body strokes, and then angel fingers or finger nails across the body. It can feel like electric shocks but it's very nice and shouldn't be unpleasantly ticklish (it's can be a fine line). I'll continue with bodywork massage, introducing more deliberately arousing strokes brushing and teasing your intimate areas, building frequency and intensity gradually increasing my focus on them.
Stimulation will become more vigorous with techniques** intended to simulate sex. For women, you may have an orgasm but it's not the goal. For men I'll careful not to go to level 7(the point of no return) yet and keep you just at the edge. As a women, if you have climaxed, you probably need to be left alone, covered for a bit.
3. Calm and Build Again
After checking you are ready to continue, I'll ask you to turn onto your back, with a towel covering and support for your head. You may like to put on a blindfold, which can heighten other senses and I will ask you about this.
I will now work on the front of your body as you choose and that may include breast and nipple play. I can do some face and neck massage if you like and will work on your legs. I will hold your hand and check in with you before gradually moving towards your genital area and my intuition and your responses such as you squeezing my hand back. You are always in control of what I am doing and it is your choice as to whether you touch me and where. Touching me back is an important aspect for most clients as they become aroused and it should not be seen as something I am offering for my own gratification.
I can finish with leaving alone/cuddling/hand-holding/gentle wiping - whatever you need to feel cared for.
**Certain aspects are limited by your "Intimacy Level" when you book.
#organised #confident #skilled
If you feel triggered into fight, flight, freeze just by reading about what I do, then your first step is certainly professional somatic talking with a qualified therapist (say I recommended them) before bodywork with me because I am not a qualified, "trauma informed" professional. I personally recommend Barbora Koblizkova, an excellent psycho-sexual & couples therapist (online, Worthing, Hove or Brighton) who has helped me in relationships.
My own expertise is as a highly skilled bodyworker who has done hours of practice with all sorts of clients (ages 24-75 of both sexes, straight and gay, and three transexual men), since 2020 and now have absolute confidence that I have the tools to be your guide towards independent, confident sexual exploration, maybe for the first time.
My smart flat is by the Hanover area of Brighton (address provided in your booking confirmation email).
Enquire about me visiting you (can be London for 90+ minutes appointments). We would require a bed or comfortable floor space. This might be in a hotel room you book or at home.
On street, paid parking available via the Pay By Phone app or by card.
My doorstep is just 1.5 hours from Victoria or London Bridge by train. Make it part of a naughty weekend in Brighton with a partner or friend or just come down for the day - many neighbours commute to London daily.
#accessible #easyfromlondon
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