"I booked the bodywork (non-genital) massage with the option to upgrade during the massage. My husband was keen for my to experience a sensual massage but I was unsure. I thought this would be a good half way to see how I felt during the massage. It was a good approach to take.
I was a bit apprehensive beforehand but James was very welcoming and put me at my ease. He explained that he would ask me how I felt during the massage and ask how I would like to proceed from then on.
I was still unsure whether to upgrade, even during the massage, so James made some suggestions to try. They definitely worked and I upgraded to the full sensual massage which I really enjoyed. James knew which buttons to press and I came really hard.
I kept thinking about it for days afterwards and felt really turned on.
I would definitely recommend James and I’m sure I will be back - my husband’s keen on the cuckold massage!
"This is the second time I have been to visit James and really can’t say how highly I recommend him, firstly James listened to my needs and wants and even though I am new to this kind of sensual massage I did let him take the lead and see how it worked. Both times wow great massage but also a lot of pleasure and new experiences with feathers, spikes etc really felt comfortable and could say what was good and what I wanted more of, I suffer with premature ejaculation and James really helped keep waiting until the right time which was amazing.. he is magical and really worth trying. I can’t leave a review in the web as my partner doesn’t know I visited otherwise I would be telling everyone" Anonymous reviewer or use fake name 😊
Me(listening to music): "Takes me back: Sexually frustrated teen with no clue around horny girls who were flirting blatantly with HIM 😂
My girlfriend: "Sensitive soul. You’re making up for it now with all sorts of horny people making their wishes abundantly clear to you and you’re handling it with age and emotional intelligence😁"
A client of James had a request for another person to assist and to fulfil his fantasies. As well as being massaged, the client specifically wanted to be spanked while blindfolded…which heightened his excitement.
Having been massaged by James before, I know he’s very good at making people feel relaxed and at ease, as well as excited. With an array of toys we teased the client to his specific requirements in a very safe, consensual environment. It was exciting for me to assist James on this occasion and to help the client act out his fantasies.
Here is some feedback on my visit to you last Thursday for you to paste into your comments section
"My recent visit to James was most pleasurable and included a very therapeutic massage. Afterwards I felt very relaxed for some time and my sometimes painful shoulder following an injury felt very much better.
I would recommend him to anybody who wanted to explore new avenues for a worthwhile experience of self discovery of one's body. An experience I hope to repeat."
Many thanks and hope to see you again.
Hi James, couldn't thank you enough for the fantastic time we had there. I really enjoyed the erotic experience. I never thought I would be so horny that day. It felt like u did some magic to stimulate the other side of me!! I think, I went out of control on that day but finally did enjoy it in the end.I think I reached orgasm many times. I personally loved the clit stimulation you did, it was fabulous!! I Hope you liked what I did to you as well. Thinking of the experience I had then makes me feel horny now. Thank you again for giving us tips to improve our sexual life. Truly worth it.
"I was so pleased when i found James’s website. It has tons of interesting content and made me really want to arrange for a massage. So i did.
Parking was easy near his location. James was very welcoming and put me at ease straight away. The room was warm and cosy.
The massage was amazing. I always enjoy touch from another male. James definitely knows how to touch the right places and take you to heaven.
He is a really interesting guy with lots of experience, guidance and suggestions to help you on your journey. As an explorer i definitely want to visit again to experience and learn more."
"James was outstandingly good. Very professional in his manner, his massage was the best I’ve ever experienced because he moved me emotionally into a space akin to a meditative state. I felt truly elevated and yes, I did become very sensually aroused without being touched directly. It was deliciously gradual and in the end it was a sensational, spiritually nourishing one to one experience. I felt elated afterwards."
"James was attentive & very professional. I was made to feel welcome & relaxed on arrival. He obviously knows his stuff and I left feeling better. He made the effort to get to know me and what I needed. Altogether a very pleasant experience."
"I went to James without knowing what to expect . We didn’t speak before and I thought it was going to be a standard massage with eventually a happy ending … no it was much more than that. Extremely sexy touch with his hands abs really able to understand what you need to take you to a journey of pleasure .. starting from nice stimulation and increasing until pleasure is at its maximum!! Let yourself go and experience pleasure !! James can definitely help you with that !"
@Sarah: Can we see photos of you?
@James: You, and other recent clients and enquiries, have inspired me to add a new page! My partner and I went to a lovely party on Friday, which also helped us understand more about this fantasy. Thank you. https://skinmap.co.uk/cuckold
@Sarah: That’s us!!
@James: Well, I pride myself on identifying open-minded explorers when they get in touch. It seems like you, and straight men looking to explore their bisexuality are the main market for me. I love this work - was a software developer for 33 years and this beats it hands down
@Sarah: Wow that’s a big change!!
@James: Aha, not your usual career progression path but hey, I needed a change and am very good at this.
@Sarah: I hope so!!
@Sarah: Have you had cuckold couples many times?
@James: You would be the third couple. Things have been understandably slow over past 17 months. It has gone very well with the first two.
@Sarah: How tall are you?
@Sarah: I’m 5 8!
@James:You will be on my table so I will tower over you
@Sarah: Yes only joking. Anyway you look big where it matters most!!
@Tony: Have you been doing this long James?
@James: I was introduced to tantric massage by my ex partner and now good friend in July 2019 and had a 3 hour massage (sensual).
She took me to her favourite sex club in Prague afterwards and it opened my mind further.
We went on a couple's massage workshop that autumn and I realised I was very good. She paid for me to have one to one training with Colin Richards of https://Intimacymatters.co.uk. He and my volunteer female said I was a natural.@Charlie: Well I'm definitely feeling more excited now I know who we're meeting. X
@Tony: Wow thanks for the detailed reply James abs really appreciate your honesty. We’re very open people and very sexual ourselves. We also love meeting new people too
@Charlie: The website is spot on. Very impressive. Makes sense now you said you're a software/Internet professional. It reads so well from start to finish. Honestly think it's spot on. Really turned me on reading through it. And totally non seedy. Xxx
@Tony: I would get quite turned on I think seeing Charlie touch you.
@Charlie: Excited nerves. Xxx
"Your website is informative and honest. I’d only received sports massage never a sensual one and had, for some time been curious about a male massaging me in a sexual way. I found you by searchiing Brighton Male Massage.
It was mind-blowing and I hardly knew where I was at the end - I struggled to get up off the table. I've never felt so relaxed in my life.
You have given me lots of things to reconsider about myself."
"It was a very pleasant meet with James. Very welcoming, nice room with a massage table and hot oil. Good chat before the massage what made me more relaxed. James worked hard but very gently and payed attention to my body reactions. I had a wonderful time and I can only recommend."
"Impressive website first led me to booking and the subsequent information and options given on arrival was refreshing to hear.Room was a fair size and tastefully furnished no issues with street noise.Hot oil was used which added to the experience and would say the glute work and thigh massage was excellent. I booked sensual and in places it was but i feel the more you go the more sensuality will come out."
"James was great, open and forthright, no embarrassments, no surprises, he lives up to the SkinMap website (superb). Premises are small and cosy, don’t expect modern opulence, but the service is genuine and the results are as advertised, he’s good. I will be back, maybe take a training session. The best Brighton male massage!"
"James -what can I say?
I have never come so hard or that many times. Seeing you a second time felt even more relaxed and you remembered that I liked just firm hands, without the feathers and things. That wee bit of pain when you did my leg muscles was good and the long, slow strokes were my favourite. It's how I like sex but the big advantage with you is that you know what you are doing down there and even ask what feels best and for how long. Glad I booked "Interact" this time so I could grab hold of your cock! Better than sex? 5/5 this time! Annie x"
"James put me at ease - calm, friendly and intuitive. Everything flowed very well, except at one point when he used the spiky wheel thing, but that is only because I have very sensitive skin. When I tried to touch his penis, he moved away. Really looking forward to a follow up massage in a few weeks - a New Year treat to myself!"
"I felt completely safe, held, respected, listened to and thoroughly enjoyed the whole experience. Very professional. I am now feeling peaceful, relaxed and content. You have healing hands!! Thank you James"
"My massage with James was an excellent experience. He was professional and put me at my ease when we discussed what I wanted from the massage. He checked in with me during and the massage itself was great and really hit the spot. He has great hands and gives an excellent massage."
"This was my first sensual massage with a qualified and experienced masseur. I was quite nervous initially, but James put me at ease through his very down to earth attitude and Karisma. James used a mixture of strokes and toys to enhance the experience... "
"I was fortunate enough to enjoy a sensual massage in Brighton with James recently and would recommend to all. James was attentive, enthusiastic and skilled. He made a great effort to put us both at ease to ensure our experience was the best it could be and was able to take me into a zone of pleasure that lasted for around 2 hours... "
"I kept wanting to look at your body 😍, but I was face down😟"
"I felt so relaxed and at ease with you touching me🥰, which isn't normal for me with new people - I'm actually very shy. I loved that you kept squeezing my hands. You are a natural😏".
"It completely broke the ice when we giggled like naughty children".
"Was I really that wet💦🤪? I can come to Brighton next weekend🚂?".
Most of us spend our lives sexually unfulfilled. It starts with a useless sex education that teaches about procreation, not pleasure, then we fill in the gaps with society's shameful, homophobic, monogamous judgements and think that porn is how real sex looks. Come to a professional who will demonstrate how attuned sex should feel so that you can seek it out with others. Bring a partner or friend for free, so you can each practice giving pleasure alongside me(extended sessions available on request).
Through attuned, mindful touch, I will show you how relaxed, embodied, sensual pleasure improves your whole life, perhaps for the first time. Your sex life won't be the same again and you will feel desirable and confident in your own skin. Attunement with someone starts before you have sex and is about keying into physical cues given by a partner or partners. When you see two dancers moving as one, they are attuned, and it is the same with intimacy.
Women can struggle to come during sex because of sensitive emotional "brakes" that need turning off. You often aren't given the emotional security and time to relax and desire sex by partners. I show you how foreplay should feel and that you should not be focused on your orgasm. If you relax, it will emerge with my touch.
Many men struggle because of an emotional disconnect with their penis, which leads to performance anxiety, impotence and premature ejaculation. Viagra is usually a sticking plaster over emotional anxiety. I aim to make you feel more connected with your whole body and help you deal with those issues. Ejaculatory orgasm is not my main aim but very likely at the moment I choose if you relax. Most male clients identify as "straight" but can't contain their excitement at my touch - it does not necessarily indicate that you are gay but that you have much in common with others.
Of course, you may just be after a damn good time that can include some light BDSM if you choose. Whatever the case, lie back and enjoy the sensual journey in my "magic hands"(See @Sally Lunn 9/9/20).
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*Must be requested on your booking form.
**Kinks to be requested on your booking form so we can agree details before your session. Can only be realised within the context of your massage and I will only introduce elements we have agreed upon. You can use an agreed "safe word" to stop the scene and revert to regular sensual massage.
Think of a desire as something you crave rather than need and I get a better idea of how I can help. We can discuss what is wanted to achieve them when you book.
Reproduced with permission from Nymphainna
My testimony from Cee Cee shows the desire she felt for me: We very quickly connected emotionally and she thrilled as her naked body was revealed to me then trusted me to touch her intimately, leading to multiple powerful orgasms. For only the second time in her life, she felt completely relaxed in a man's hands. In this interview with Cosmopolitan, she explains how having sensual massages transformed her body and sexual confidence.
Only book the intimacy service you are comfortable with:
I will create the sexual desire you need to orgasm. My ability to respect boundaries and keep the space safe for us is key to trust, relaxation and success.
Having a self-serious "tantra guru" or "adonis" therapist can stop some people from establishing an emotional connection because they are not "showing you" their true selves. You don't feel comfortable making yourself vulnerable and so may not fully relax as they touch you, emotionally blocking your orgasm. Female clients generally experience a few, intense orgasms because you connect->trust->relax->desire alongside physical arousal. Your orgasms are more about you intensely desiring my touch than being aroused or me touching you. The chain starts the moment I greet you. A sensual massage booking with me is, primarily an experience rather than a therapy.
Instead, we can role-play these serious stereotypes with agreement so it becomes a hot fantasy scene where we are connected - do you see the difference? It will then be relaxed, naughty, light-hearted, fantastic, passionate, slippery fun. With me, you will feel free to giggle, laugh, swear, squeal, groan, moan, writhe, shake and buck. It becomes your space to let go and unleash your sensual, raw, hedonistic self without shame or guilt.
I am not sexual trauma trained and so if you think there is a risk that the session will bring up serious emotional pain, I would ask that you visit a therapist specifically trained to deal with such issues instead. However, it is of course an emotional experience and expression is welcome; I am a well-balanced and emotionally literate man and happy to cuddle and soothe but not to give talking therapy.
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#skilled #experienced #ethical #honest #fun
Because James is licenced to thrill
As my girlfriend said after a massage once: "Any woman you massage is absolutely going to want you to fuck her.". My response: "It's not just women, believe me, and most male clients identify as 'straight'!".
You may caress me with your hands when I am within reach. Book the "Interact" massage to see and touch all of me... If you are into submission, let me know (when you book) if you want to be disciplined when you don't behave yourself😈.
Some clients try to go further in the heat of the moment, just as we might in sex, but I will decline; It is a sign that you want to me feel good about the level trust in the room and It is a natural expression of our innate, human, socially sexual bonding behaviours. Also, It is hard-wired in both woman and men to want to touch and suck the cock of a person we are in positive intimate connection with. I find that men are much more inclined to try it because, on average they feel less ashamed about acting on that desire. You trying to suck my cock doesn't embarrass me because I am used to it and see it as a sign that your session is going well and that I am arousing you, but would ask that you instead tell me you feel like doing it. There is also the chance of STI transmission(I am regularly tested, incidentally).
From a government scientific study: "a male partner receiving oral sex was positively related to his assessment of relationship support."
I will give you a relaxing sensual massage with external and internal stimulation, tailored to your needs and desires after absolute agreement between us around our boundaries. All therapeutic massage given is bodywork. It may also include role-play or BDSM if we have discussed and agreed them. Detail them on the booking form.
You will be naked, allowing free-flowing and sensual strokes to the whole body.
It will take place on my high quality, spotlessly clean treatment table in my warm room (21c), with your choice of scent and soft music (we can use your Spotify playlist). You may have a shower first. I'll leave the room for you to prepare and fully relax your body and mind, covering yourself with a towel.
I will be guided by my natural intuition, taking all sorts of cues from you, physical and verbal. I'll encourage you to shift around and vocalise.
Roughly speaking, there will be 3 stages, split more or less equally but very much dependent upon your responses as we progress:
1. Trust And Relaxation
The first phase will be about building trust and relaxing with just a little teasing to begin arousal. You'll be face down on the treatment table with a towel covering your body from shoulders to feet and I'll begin with head massage, gently stroking your neck and ears.
Then light touches, progressing to firm pressure applied up and down the body, all over the towel at this stage.
I'll remove the towel extremely slowly, dragging it down over the body to the feet. You will feel an incredibly powerful sensation as it moves across the body, combined the feeling of being exposed, which can be very exciting.
I'll then use ostrich feathers, finger-tips and other sensory stimulation devices to awaken your senses.
Now, hot coconut oil will be gently applied, and I'll give a bodywork full body massage with mostly long and slow strokes. They will be firm but not deep tissue.
There can be body contact, caressing, hugging, and I always hold and squeeze hands to build a trusting context. There will be sensual touch of the neck, inner thighs, buttocks to tease and thus build desire, but it won't be fully erotic at this stage.
2. Build Arousal
I'll reawaken the senses, first with brisk all over body strokes, and then angel fingers or finger nails across the body. It can feel like electric shocks but it's very nice and shouldn't be unpleasantly ticklish (it's can be a fine line). I'll continue with bodywork massage, introducing more deliberately arousing strokes brushing and teasing your intimate areas, building frequency and intensity gradually increasing my focus on them.
Stimulation will become more vigorous with techniques** intended to simulate sex. For women, you may have an orgasm but it's not the goal. For men I'll careful not to go to level 7(the point of no return) yet and keep you just at the edge. As a women, if you have climaxed, you probably need to be left alone, covered for a bit.
3. Calm and Build Again
After checking you are ready to continue, I'll ask you to turn onto your back, with a towel covering and support for your head. You may like to put on a blindfold, which can heighten other senses and I will ask you about this.
I will now work on the front of your body as you choose and that may include breast and nipple play. I can do some face and neck massage if you like and will work on your legs. I will hold your hand and check in with you before gradually moving towards your genital area and my intuition and your responses such as you squeezing my hand back. You are always in control of what I am doing and it is your choice as to whether you touch me and where. Touching me back is an important aspect for most clients as they become aroused and it should not be seen as something I am offering for my own gratification.
I can finish with leaving alone/cuddling/hand-holding/gentle wiping - whatever you need to feel cared for.
**Certain aspects are limited by your "Intimacy Level" booking choice:
#organised #confident #skilled
You may still have questions about what sensual massage is and how it compares with Tantric Massage and prostitution.
It is important to know the differences before choosing your professional.
My smart flat is a 15 min walk from Brighton Station(address provided upon booking). On street parking with Paybyphone app.
If you live in London, then my doorstep is just 1.5 hours from Victoria or London Bridge by train. Make it part of a naughty weekend in Brighton with a partner or friend or just come down for the day - many neighbours commute to London daily.
I don't come out to you and my flat is very easy to reach.