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What are your kinks?
Each of us has our own unique routes to sexual desire (not the same as physical arousal) and amongst them will our kinks (stuff outside of our normal, personal range of turn-ons).
"My Kink Is Not Your Kink" refers to the fact that, for instance, cuckoldry is not considered kinky within dutch society.
What's A good definition of kinky?
According to Liam Wignal (author of Kinky in the Digital Age)
From a recent project that developed the Kink Orientation Scale:
"A spectrum of sexual or erotic activities outside of normative versions of sex, undertaken for sensory, emotional, or psychological pleasure. It tends to include: the exchange of power, or performance of this; the infliction or receiving of pain; the wearing of gear; and/or the fetishisation of body parts and/or objects. Kink can be practised individually or in groups, and it can be organised into communities and subcultures. It is consensual, with a shared understanding that the activities are kinky.".
Really then, it is whatever whatever turns us on, individually or with others, that is outside of our sexual norms.
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I'll help you to discretely explore them
For many people, elements of BDSM are kinky and I can definitely help there. I suppose I would call my services "BDSM light", in that I am not offering anything too dark and deep in terms of a scene. By a scene I mean the pre-agreed, safe "container" within which two or more people will safely explore a dominance and submission dynamic (the "D" and "S" in BDSM of some kind.
Many people will want to delve deeper into types of scene that allow them to act out deeply traumatic events or thoughts with a view to healing them, but I am not sufficiently trained or experienced as a "dom" just yet. It is something I would like to explore for myself with a view to offering it at a later date though.
Instead, I am offering the chance to try (for example):
- Sensory deprivation of sight and/or hearing
- Restraint with cuffs whilst bent over a "spanking bench" (the "B" and "S" of BDSM)
- Restraint whilst standing, with cuffs clipped to my ceiling-chain ("B")
- A fantasy role-play scenario of your choice
- Cuckold massage, where (usually) he watches me pleasure (usually) her.
- Bi-curious massage (very popular amongst "hetro" male clients!)
Maybe expore new sensory kinks such as:
- Tweaking and tugging
- Whispering
- Scratching
- Pinching
- Pin-wheel
- Feather teasing
- Cold and hot liquids and objects
- Vibrator
- Nipple clamps
- Caresses, grabs and nail-scratching up and down your body
If you are interested to know whether your interest in kink generally is "normal", well just have a listen to this podcast by Dr Justin Lemiller!
When after you have booked, you can select the kinky options your desire on the Information and Consent form.
Example of a kinky restraint option