Cuckolding in England is exploding

Cuckolding refers to a sexual practice in which someone finds it arousing to watch their partner have sex with another person. An important distinction between this and other group sex dynamics is that the partner having sex "humiliates" the watching one and makes comments such as how much better his cock feels and similar, with the objective of it being a turn-on for both.

The Stag-vixen dynamic, on the other hand, doesn't involve humiliation and the watcher will be invited into a threesome with the two individuals having sex.

It is an extremely common fantasy for both sexes, with homo and bi-sexual individuals having slightly more interest; I don't find that surprising as they will probably not have such a hetro-normative outlook on non-monogamy of any kind. 

Interestingly, for hetrosexual individuals there is a clear preference amongst women to be the one having sex with another man (the "Bull"), and amongst men to watch their partner with the Bull (to be the "Cuck").

In the week ending 11/2/2024, Google search string "cuckold massage" was the second most common way that my site visitors arrived (not far behind "erotic massage brighton").

There was a 50% increase in my site visitors after a search for "cuckold massage" in the 3 months to 11/2/2024 (compared to the previous 3 months). 

Dr Justin Lehmiller surveyed 4,175 Americans about cuckolding  for his book In the book "Tell Me What You Want" and the break-down was as follows:

Voyeuristic cuckolding (watching your partner having sex with someone else)

· 26% of heterosexual women had fantasized about this

· 42% of non-heterosexual women had fantasized about this

· 52% of heterosexual men had fantasized about this

· 66% of non-heterosexual men had fantasized about this

· 45% of those with non-binary gender identities had fantasized about this

Exhibitionistic cuckolding (being watched by your partner)

· 40% of heterosexual women had fantasized about this

· 58% of non-heterosexual women had fantasized about this

· 50% of heterosexual men had fantasized about this

· 55% of non-heterosexual men had fantasized about this

· 48% of those with non-binary gender identities had fantasized about this

Obviously then, it isn’t a rare or uncommon sexual interest at all!

There are many reasons people enjoy it, and the most common themes are that women find it sexually empowering to be seen having sex with someone else and men find the "humiliation" a turn on - consensual infidelity.

As with everything about sex, it is much more varied and nuanced from individual to individual and couple to couple ("My Kink Is Not Your Kink"), and I would urge you to watch Justin Lehmiller's interview with Dr David Leh below.

Book a sensual massage with your partner and you can safely explore how you feel about either dynamic without actually having sex with me. One of you watches (and touches themselves and/or me, if they feel drawn to it), whilst I pleasure the other on my table.

Select one of Cuckold or Stag-vixen on the Information and Consent Form after booking.

Other than that, you can see what you both want to do other than that at the time. After one partner has booked, the other partner must independently book as "Second Client Of Couple" because I need their explicit consent of course; "surprise" massages are not something I entertain, and they may not either.

After you have booked, select "Cuckolding" on the Information and Consent form.

I escorted for two couples as their "bull" last year. During one, it was only cuckold and for the second there was a threesome afterwards (read Joe and Nicola's testimonial). Everything was chosen by them and part of the thrill was planning for it beforehand - I had to meet one couple in the bar and seduce her first, before following them up to their room and slowly undressing her in front of him.

I was supremely confident in both situations and surprised even myself with how I guided both situations for my clients with ease (I am trained in improv comedy and enjoy performing generally).

I would prefer that you had both previously come for at least my cheapest sensual massage offering first as that will reassure all of us that it will work well in a full, sexual situation, lessen your anxiety about going ahead and heighten your fantasy about what it will be like on the day!