Lingam and Yoni are Tantric names for the penis and vulva. The main difference between masturbation and massage of the genitals is that the former has a primary focus on orgasm and the other, on the sensual experience that may lead to it.
Genital massage is typically more of a sexual healing treatment than sensual massage (though certainly not exclusively) and will help you to overcome blockages to orgasmic release by mindfully manipulating your whole genital region, inside and out. This therapy is commonly known as dearmouring in that it is "breaking down" your mind and body's resistance to orgasmic release by massaging the areas containing your most responsive, arousing and nerve-filled erogenous tissues. The affects are usually long-lasting after just one session although you may consider booking a series of appointments.
For men, this may include manual protatate massage (recommended yet optional) and for women, internal vaginal massage (required for a full and effective treatment).
Every time I give a sensual massage , the last 45 minutes or so include genital massage and I have become increasingly proficient at edging, as a result. Edging is the art of almost bringing yourself or another to orgasm, but not quite.
As I have become ever better at reaching the edge, I have realised that some of my male clients were achieving orgasm without ejaculation. To explain, there is a "fluttering" of the prostate muscles that causes a rapid pulsing along the shaft. I have realised that taking the attention away from the glans means that I can prevent the actual ejaculation from happening, even though their orgasm did. A recent client was sure he must have ejaculated three times because he had never had a non-ejaculatory orgasm before.
Many women have already achieved multiple orgasms as a matter of course. Others think they are having them because fair many have never actually had an orgasm and assume the ecstatic lead up is just that; well, why wouldn't they? The truly life-changing experience I often help these women to experience is the first actual orgasm in their life in the room, with me assisting them. It is about completely trusting and submitting to the sensual journey I have enabled - the first man to take them to that magical place. I urge prospective female clients to read the ground-breaking "Come As You Are" by Dr Emily Nagoski to understand that each woman has a path to satisfying orgasm if the giver is able to tune into your unique requirements; to take off the emotional brakes and step onto your accelerators. We each have an orgasmic "garden" that needs to be nurtured in a specific way.
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