Better connect with your sensual self
Lingam and Yoni Massage
Your lingam (penis) or yoni (vulva) massage brings your curious, non-judgemental attention there.
They are Sanskrit names for the two gential types (Tantra terms).
Whilst you may orgasm as a result, it is not necessarily the goal and does not need be an expectation. However, some find it a route to multiple orgasms.
I bring your mindful attention to the entire region
By going slowly and gradually, we build huge orgasmic energy
Foreplay can be the main event when both giver and receiver are actively, enthusiastically engaged in what is happening moment-by-moment. I would describe it as a joint, mindful pleasure meditation on just person's genitals, and when you book a session with me, it's all about your bits, for a whole hour!
Most of us have been in a sexual situation where the person touching us either isn't doing it for our pleasure or is doing it because they felt obligated (transactional sex). I know from experience when they aren't fully vested in the job at hand (pun intended) and gently suggest we do something that they would prefer - don't get cross because it sets up all sorts of shaming, resentment and pushing away.
I recommend a proper genital massage, from someone who understands relaxed connection, intimate communication, genital anatomy and how to build teasing anticipation without a race to the finishing-line.
Have I convinced you?
Not only is your session a transcendental sexual experience, but you will go away understanding what good sex feels like, and be better-equipped to actively guide your lovers when they are pleasuring you.