About James, the Brighton sensual masseur

Via email

"Hi James  I very much enjoyed my time with you this week and it was great to feel that connection with you too.  My confidence is coming back!

Thanks for sharing the article, it’s reassuring to hear about people in similar circumstances, and also the power of communication.

I’d definitely like to book again and so I hope we meet again in the (not too distant) future. Sarah x"

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"I really enjoyed the time when I was there. James always does his best to give you the best experience."

My response

"Thank you so much Keith and I am so proud when I see people recognise the effort I put in. I realised recently that I must have given around 170 massages now as well as 3 very successful escorting sessions (more recent service). James."

Via email

"Hi James,

I did look at putting up a Google review but wouldn't like my name & photo appearing.

Please feel free to anonymously use this on your website though -

James is the perfect mix of relaxed & friendly while also being very professional. I had the sensual massage which definitely hit the spot. I had a wonderful time. Thanks James!"

Via email:

"I have made several visits to James over the last 2 years. I am impressed by his honest and straightforward approach to erotic massage, with no euphemisms or hypocrisy. His website tells and shows exactly what you get.  His standard sensual massage is wonderful and can take you into a level of ecstasy where you've never been before. On my latest visit I went to the next level and had an internal (prostate) massage. James knows what he's doing with this type of massage: no  hurry,  very patient and taking the time that's needed for sensations to build up. The result was beyond words - I had a leg-shaking prostate orgasm followed shortly afterwards by genital orgasm with ejaculation. An unforgettable experience!"

Via Contact Page:

"Hi, I am very happy to know your website, I would like to book an hour massage to have an orgasm, I would like an outside massage without any input. I am a 30 year old woman what is the earliest date".

My reflections

She explained that English was not her 1st language and that she was Arabic and so needed to know there would be no penetration (this means you are no longer a virgin, for her).

We chatted back and forth by email until she was confident that I would only do what she wanted during her session and I explained that Michelle had felt confident enough on 24/10, and loved what had happened.

The session was in her room, which was a first for me; it had to be on her bed as there was no room for my table. She insisted that that was exactly what she wanted to feel comfortable and so I agreed and visited with my bag of equipment. It was all quite exciting for both when she guided me up in the lift to her room, me following slightly behind.

I invited her to connect with me standing face-to-face and deep breathe in sync, whilst eye-gazing and holding hands. She was shy at first, looking down but was smiling when she looked up to meet my eyes. It helped us both to connect and relax which is an essential pre-requisite for intimacy work. She asked me whether we could start and I explained what would happen, letting her feel the feather, angel-fingers and spike wheel and asking her to choose a diffuser scent, music and lighting. The right setting is incredibly important and especially for female clients.

The session went very smoothly, although it was tricky getting around her on the bed (it was against a wall). I guess it meant for a more intimate experience and I still managed to do all of the things I would normally do on the table.

Shamima was very responsive and vocal, making delightful noises as I worked - letting me know exactly what was arousing her from moment to moment by squeezing my hand back (my way of getting feedback).

At times she would remind me about not wanting penetration as I massaged her pussy externally; it can be difficult for a client to know when they are swollen and slick with coconut oil and their own natural lubrication!

She came several times (as requested on her form) and delighted in the free bullet vibrator I gave her.

"I found the site because I was looking for an erotic massage ‏The reason for the reservation is that I want to enjoy the excitement and reach the orgasm more than once".

As I left, she asked whether we could be friends and she could text me.

(Note: Shamima is a pseudonym)

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"I have since been for a second sensual massage with James. He takes the time to put you at ease so you feel completely relaxed and not awkward at all."

My reflections

Sarah first visited in May and knew exactly what she wanted the second time so booked my Standard massage which includes internal pussy and anal massage (very nice for women too). So much more relaxed and trusting of me and the experience from the start during this visit and we had a good catch-up chat beforehand. I fully expect her to be brave enough to turn onto her back the next time; this is a gradual process of building body-confidence for many female clients

My reflections

Michelle booked my Introductory level massage which excludes internal touch but she excluded genital touch on the consent form as well, which I was puzzled by but was explained afterwards.

When she arrived, I gave her option to request vulva massage and even to upgrade to Standard (internal massage) if she had the additional £20. I could tell she was simply feeling a bit reticent about genital touch as it was her first ever sensual massage.

The session went well and she was clearly already very aroused when on her front, grinding the table and dripping juices onto the cover. I asked if she would like me to touch her vulva and she gave enthusiastic consent. She orgasmed after about 15 seconds of light touch. I have never seen such an intense, full body one and she grabbed my hand and contorted, as if in pain.

When she turned over, I massaged her nipples for just a few seconds and she orgasmed again. She looked at me and asked what had just happened!

When I massaged her vulva this time I did it very slowly and talked to her about the things happening. Coaching her about her body. She came again.

What was surprising this time is she asked whether I had put my fingers inside her. She looked convinced I had. I explained not, and she accepted it.

We had a long talk afterwards and I explained about the orgasmic plateau and how she had been there and that even thoughts could have triggered further orgasms; the entire body and mind can become an erogenous zone.

She revealed that she had excluded internal touch for religious reasons and cannot give herself orgasms.

This podcast by Justin Lehmiller on boundary fluidity explains the psychology behind Michelle's process with me, and why she was so brave!

(The text above was approved by the client as being an authentic account).

Coming to me is a sexually life-transforming experience.

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"I booked the bodywork (non-genital) massage with the option to upgrade during the massage. My husband was keen for my to experience a sensual massage but I was unsure. I thought this would be a good half way to see how I felt during the massage. It was a good approach to take.

I was a bit apprehensive beforehand but James was very welcoming and put me at my ease. He explained that he would ask me how I felt during the massage and ask how I would like to proceed from then on.  I was still unsure whether to upgrade, even during the massage, so James made some suggestions to try. They definitely worked and I upgraded to the full sensual massage which I really enjoyed. James knew which buttons to press and I came really hard.

I kept thinking about it for days afterwards and felt really turned on.  I would definitely recommend James and I’m sure I will be back - my husband’s keen on the cuckold massage!  Sarah".

My response

"Thank you so much for this detailed review Sarah; it is really helpful because it gives others a much better flavour of my services and the way I manage to put people at their ease, even on their first visit to an erotic massuer.

James."