Interesting stuff to learn

I have trawled for and collated the most horny stories, best toy reviews and most informative and enlightening blogs you will find in one place. See you next week!

Go out and explore! I have collated an amazing array of events and experiences both online and in your gorgeous flesh.

There are sex parties, talks, online 1:1 training, voyeur parties, book discussions, all about anything that's just a little bit off-piste from vanilla life.

UPDATE: Sex parties will be legal again from 21st Jun 2021 and will be listed as soon as I have details. Check back regularly because tickets will sell like hot-cakes this year.

Ethical, in porn, means that everyone involved in the production was treated with respect. Boundaries, fair pay, safe practices, consent etc were observed.

Anna of FrolicMe has done a brilliant job at producing and presenting a collection of beautiful erotic fiction with compelling stories and when I watch with my partner we always miss the ending.

When we treat others as we would like to be, then everyone's needs can be met.

Already used by millions in business: The 12 principles of agile were created by a bunch of software geeks frustrated at the terrible "waterfall" method of trying to develop software before you know who needs what!

This site will show you how to effectively apply the principles of agile to relationships.

Women typically have a different path to arousal and desire. They frequently enjoy erotic fantasy about being dominated and having "rough" sex and tend to get aroused by a wider range of porn, showing similar responses to all genres in an experiment, including bonobos at it!

Both sexes often have threesome fantasies. Receiving vaginal/anal and oral sex simultaneously (spit-roast) is a common fantasy for women and especially with more than 2 men in a session until she feels thoroughly "used".

Women can get bored more quickly with a  monogamous relationship.

Why receiving/giving fellatio with a male partner is so important for both of you:

From a government scientific study: "a male partner receiving oral sex was positively related to his assessment of relationship support."

Women who perform oral sex on their partners are actually much happier and less depressed

Contrary to popular belief, men are highly sensitive to perceived rejection and are especially aroused by knowing how much someone enjoys their body. On the whole, monogamy seems more important for them.

A very common male fantasy is for to watch his partner having sex with a stranger or friend (Cuckoldry). He becomes more horny and produces more semen. The partners' bond strengthens.

My insider's guide to organising a raunchy weekend break to the original kiss me quick destination. Give that butler a treat he won't forget. 

It makes sexual exploration even better when you can relax in the knowledge that everyone is on the same page about boundaries, rules and consent.