Erotic Awareness Ceremony in Brighton

The Ceremony transforms the powerful experience of your massage into lasting change.

After one or more erotic massage sessions, you feel awakened, more connected to your body, more in tune with desire, and more aware of how deep erotic presence can go.

But awareness isn’t the end. The real shift happens when that awakening integrates into how you:

- relate

- touch

- make love

- choose lovers.

Erotic Awareness Ceremony is your opportunity to practice the remaining half of conscious sex, by becoming comfortable with something most people never understand:

The same act of touch can for your pleasure, or mine (see how we will explore it below).

Boundary

During erotic ceremony, gifts of pleasure flow both ways (as described by Betty Martin's "Wheel of Consent®") 

Agreements

We make offers and requests about:

• How you are touched
• How I am touched

and ethics imply:

• Offers responded to with gratitude
• Requests made without expectation
• Negotiation, not rejection

The Erotic Awareness Ceremony is a co-created space where touch becomes language, arousal becomes insight, and your body becomes a temple of awakening. It's not a performance. It’s a ceremony. A dedicated space where your desires, boundaries, emotions, and pleasure are all welcomed and witnessed.

You may bring a friend or lover at no additional cost (they also need to meet the criteria in the next section).

At it's core, process is:

• Opening ritual to connect and set intentions🙏
• Explore erotic and energetic connection for 2 or 3 hours🫠🔥
• Closing ritual to honour what was created🙏

This experience is for you if:

• You are a past client and we have had a video call to agree we are happy to go ahead.
• You have a recent, clear STI test you can demonstrate
• You’re curious about deepening your connection to erotic energy
• You want to experience sex as something sacred, not performative
• You’re seeking a safe space to explore surrender and sensation
• You crave intimacy that includes emotional presence, not just physical contact
• You’re ready to meet yourself through the mirror of embodied connection
• You're able to respect the boundary of no contact outside of ceremony (except to explore last, and set intentions for next).
   

If this resonates, and you have already had a massage from me book a video call to explore whether it feels right for us 🙏 

If you are after a "no-strings sex-only" encounter because you're still afraid of being seen, being known, being changed, then Ceremony is too much, too soon and more erotic massage is needed until your internal mantra shifts to:

"Strings mean mind-blowing sex, for hours!" 🎶🐝🤌🧊⛓️‍💥🤚🍆💦🍑😲☯️🗣️🥂😭😂🫤😌🍆🫂🎶

Read "Sex Isn’t Just Physical, Even When We Pretend It Is"

Each ceremony is bespoke, guided by your comfort, intention, and energy.

It may include:

• Grounding rituals and intention-setting
• Sensual breath-work and eye-gazing
• Guided touch, sound, and movement practices
• Erotic massage using oils, textures, and varying tempos
• Optional elements such as restraint, temperature play, and sensual ritual
• Conscious aftercare and integration, including a closing ritual that honours the experience without creating future obligation

This is a fully consensual, boundary-respecting space. Nothing is assumed, everything is negotiated with care. Sex is a possibility, not an obligation. You are in charge of your experience at all times.

Because this isn’t about quick gratification.
It’s about reverence.
It’s about being seen, not just touched.
And it’s about letting erotic energy become healing, not just release.

When treated with attention and intention, sex becomes sacred. That’s what ceremony means: presence, precision, power.

Q: Is this a sexual service?
Yes, in the sense that your erotic self is fully welcome here. However, this is not a performance or a fantasy-fulfilment service. It is a therapeutic, mindful space of erotic embodiment.

Q: What if I have trauma or feel nervous?
We proceed at your pace. There is always space to pause, slow down, or adjust. Emotional safety is central.

Q: How do I prepare?
Come freshly showered, open-hearted, and free from alcohol or substances. If you’d like to bring an intention for the session, that’s welcome.

Q: Will we be in ongoing contact afterward?
Unless we’ve agreed otherwise, the ceremony is self-contained. Our closing ritual honours the experience without expectation or emotional enmeshment.

Q: Where will it take place?

1. My flat where you came for the massage or
2. My holiday rental flat upstairs (click button) or
3. Your home or hotel room you've booked in Brighton

For sexy folk who meet the "Who is this for?" criteria