Most bookings are from mixed-sex couples🧑🤝🧑
Male escort in Brighton
Hiring me as an escort will be fun, exciting and worth every minute. I am relaxed, easy-going, entertaining, well-presented and experienced.
You may simply use the time for socialising and companionship and there is always the option of taking me to bed for cuddles and more at the end of the day.
Why would I book you?
Because you are attracted to me, and I use the Wheel Of Consent®
The fact you are reading this means that you are probably already considering hiring a male escort as opposed to simply booking an erotic massage, and want to know whether I would be suitable. I don't offer sexual surrogacy.
The attraction bit is key😏, so take a look at some photos and see whether I light your fire. There are very explicit ones here that are hidden if you're not not logged-in🧐. Sign-up as a SkinMap member, then request "private page" access so I'm complying with legal stuff.
This service differs from Erotic Services, because intimacy will very probably include the "gift" of pleasure for me too (see The Wheel Of Consent®).
We want to try a threesome without the risk
We all have threesome as our top sexual fantasy which makes perfect sense. They tend to be taboo but easy to imagine. Group sex is such an exciting prospect because of the additional options and dynamics for sexual acts and intimate connection. Two people giving us oral sex for instance is usually a mind-blowing idea and, believe me, the reality is at least as tantalising. Beyond that?🤪.
Why risk getting it wrong and damaging your relationship or a friendship? Hire me and make it go with a bang because I am not a friend and know how to make them work. You can read Nicola and Joe's email to me after our threesome at the Mercure hotel in Brighton.
We desire a great cuckold experience
My most common booking (so far) is for me to have sex with a women whilst her male partner looks on and touches himself.
This also tops the enquiries I get from couples contacting me via my contact form or instant message. I am more than happy to consider these bookings and they are relatively straightforward as the main interaction is with just one person still. You can read Nicola and Joe's email to me.
As with most escorting engagements, they usually take place in a local hotel room you have booked for the night.
I desire a massage with sex
If you have already decided that you would like a sensual massage that includes sex with me, as some clients know they desire, then we need to treat it as an escorting booking for obvious reasons. I am happy to make that happen either at my place where I have a table and equipment, at yours or in a hotel room. Contact me so we can discuss your desires and the logistics.
If you want to take a massage without sex, but where I am naked and you can play with me, then book here.
I married and aren't having my needs met
Many women who hire me do so because they have realised that, although all other aspects of their partnership are good, he just doesn't seem that interested in sex for some reason. They have tried to address it and maybe even sought relationship counceling but the spark has gone for some reason.
The fact is that we all change over the years, and being happily married does not necessarily mean that we remain sexually compatible. Other women report that they have just become a bit bored of the same thing or even person and simply seek novelty and variety; A different kind of body, way of touching them, more dominance, different physique maybe? Well why not indeed and chocolate ice cream might be OK mostly but perhaps mango sorbet takes your fancy once in a while? Human beings are inquisitive explorers of novelty by instinct, which is one of the main reasons we cheat in partnerships. My advice is to seek consent before you book but I will not judge your private situation.
I have lots of fun toys we can play with and so it is a wonderful opportunity to discover new ways to pleasure yourself with dildos, restraints, impact and so on - ask me about my tool-kit.
When you book time with me, I will be that novel fantasy man who knows how to touch you with confidence and affection, when you need that, or maybe be more dominant with you when that is your thing.
Have a chat with me and share your fantasies; I am open-minded, will consider your requests, and eager to please so why not at least find out more. and see whether I might light your fire?
I get stressed in partnerships and casual sex is disappointing
Most women I meet have been there at some point. You aren't in a place where you can commit to a serious relationship and still desire great sex.
Hookups are disappointing and leave you feeling worse afterwards and you feel stuck between a rock and a hard place (intentional pun).
Try a session with me and see whether it lights your fire. If nothing else you are more or less guaranteed and orgasm and I can guarantee I will last as long as you desire because I am fit, healthy and have done the self-development to be fully present during sex.
Consider also that you will learn much more about your own sexual potential during a few hours with me than months in the average "vanilla" relationship. Unconventional, perhaps, but common sense, absolutely. How many more expensive, no-orgasm hookup dates do you want to waste your time with?
I want companionship with maybe more
I'm not just all about sex. Of course not and, in order to be good at sex and intimacy one needs to be accomplished at all the other important stuff that makes people enjoy spending time with us.
Use time with me to socialise, dance (I am a very experienced dancer of some 20 years) and dine too. I am knowledgeable, intelligent and listen well. I have raised kids, been married, run businesses and love good food. I have wide-ranging musical tasts and enjoy the arts (my mother is an accomplished artist and raised me to appreciate creativity).
Hire a sexy, attractive social companion that you may choose to snuggle up with afterwards.
I need to explore with someone experienced and confident
Maybe you you are lacking confidence in the bedroom because of lack of sexual education and experience with other, more confident lovers? I will help because I have done the work needed to be a great lover and educator both. I have given over 150 sensual (orgasmic) massages, had a full and explorative sex life and can talk to you about your needs and desires to see whether they can be realised with me. You can ask me anything without feeling ashamed and I will demonstrate good sexual communication and emboddied intimacy.
Perhaps you are a straight guy who needs to know what it is like with another man? No strings, shame and with absolute discretion; you lead the way at your pace.
Build sexual confidence during hot sex with with me and take new skills and experience to current and future lovers.
I want to sext and flirt with someone skillled
If you don't want to go the whole hog and meet for physical sex with me, then you can book a week of hot sexting and flirting instead.
Lots of men (and women) would love to learn how to use WhatsApp, Telegram and so on better to have virtual sex when not with a lover. In many ways it is not even about it being an alternative to sex but means that you are having sex (both getting aroused). Masturbating on a video call whilst someone else watches and guides your hand can be incredibly hot and lead to better orgasms than watching porn solo.
I love dirty talk and publish original erotica so you can get a taste of my style of filthy expression.
Why not give me a try and see how naughty it gets?
Next steps
Managing sexual risk
If you do choose to have sex with me, you can be assured that I understand consent, boundaries and agreements beyond most and can show you recent, clear STD test results. I will respect your attitudes to risk as being a minimum requirement during our time together.
I have had a vasectomy and so am unable to make anyone pregnant.
I will require to see a recent, clear STD test result from you too, obviously. We will discuss our attitudes towards risk for specific sex acts in advance.
I am skilled at reading your desires, checking in with you constanty, and respecting your boundaries and any fluidity therein (things can often change in the moment and should). Asserting boundaries in a flexible and respectful way such as "[Not that right now, but how about this instead?]" can be the most horny, teasing phrase in a trusting sexual situation.
An agreed "safe word" is important too; something other than "no", which can not (there is a lot of ignorant nonsense around this word being definative during sex) be misinterpreted in the heat of passion such as "dinosaur" (one that I have used in the past).
Rates, consent, booking and payment
Rates as from 21/8/2023 are as follows:
- 1 hour £200
- 2 hours £350
- 3 hours £440
- 4 hours £500
Each additional hour after 4 is then charged at £50.
Any travel time will be agreed and added to the rate calculated above.
Once everything is agreed, with a date and time, I will create a one-off quote/booking form for you that I will send you a link to. You then complete the required information (which includes your DOB and consent), and pay a 20% deposit online via PayPal when you submit the booking. You will pay me the balance in cash in advance when we meet please.
If you really need to see me aroused
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Fisting for women
I just wanted to share my personal and professional experiences of this incredible sexual/sensual touch act. It is a shame, in many ways, that it called fisting because it implies something violent that night be uncomfortable. On the contrary, it should feel intensely relaxing and make you moan with pleasure. I would prefer the term "handing".
I recently surprised a female client by helping them to have a full-bodied, writhing orgasm by mindfully "handing" them. To explain, they had never before managed to reach orgasm from internal stimulation alone and believed the only ones they could have were via external, clitoral play.
As their partner watched and learned, I took them from one-fingered G-spot massage to enjoying most of my five fingers, rotating and moving in and out of her until she exploded into squirting, ecstatic pleasure in front of us. Their sex life had just taken a whole new turn for the better!
When you book your sensual massage, tell me in the first "Questions" field on the booking form if you are interested in exploring this experience. Maybe even bring a friend or partner (FOC) to watch and learn too?
Click to read the erotic story my client Clara sent